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Showing posts with label Diva. Show all posts
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Friday, 28 October 2011

Diva - Help! My son, 8, is in a ‘relationship’

Diva - Help! My son, 8, is in a ‘relationship’

Kids these days are so exposed to matters that we were ignorant about when we were their age. They can read up about stuff that they do not know from the internet. They can watch "instruction" videos about things that arouse their interest. Gone are the days where kids have to ask their parents about things that they do not know. Gone are the days where we parents can give them vague, dismissing (don't ask; go and play with your toys) or weird answers (isn't "we found you at our doorstep one day" weird?).

I have a colleague with a 5 year old child, who already "likes" a couple of girls at his kindergarten! How early is that?!

I don't believe that we should dismiss their questions, but should answer them truthfully in a manner that can they can understand at their age. Haha! I don't know what I'll do when Caleb asks about the birds and the bees. But I do hope that he'll be at ease enough with me to ask. I hope that I do things right enough that my son will want to share about his 'relationship' with me.

Because it is only than that we as parents can check their growth, give them the right information, and hopefully, help to steer them in the right direction.

Thursday, 20 October 2011

Diva - Teaching kids about money

Diva - How to teach kids about money

Diva - Teach your child about dollars & cents

A lesson that will cultivate a very important aspect of life. And it's a lesson that I have a few more years to plan. For now, let mummy splurge on the basic necessities and indulgent wants for you. :P

Monday, 3 October 2011

Diva - Managing your child's temper tantrums

Diva - Managing your child's temper tantrums

It seems that Caleb has started this early. Although it's not those terrible lie-on-the-floor-wailing-away tantrums, it's still a fuss/cry when he don't gets what he wants. It's still very easy to distract him with other toys/activities now, but I wonder how it will be like in the future. Long (my hubby) and I did talk about this before. His stand is to walk away from Caleb. I wonder will I be able to handle it calmly or be those screaming-my-head-off-at-the-kid-mom.

Hopefully the article in the link will save me and for those who are reading!

Wednesday, 21 September 2011